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For the benefit of my friends in Massachussetts who write wistfully, when I post about the green fields of Shildon, that they have "forgotten what grass looks like" - and because [livejournal.com profile] nineweaving recommended we visit Mount Auburn Cemetery, and because [livejournal.com profile] weegoddess (and J) took us there, and walked round with us in the lush late summer green (and maybe regretted just a little bit that we were too early for the fall colours)...

Mount Auburn is a beautiful and historic garden, a public leisure amenity; it is also a cemetery still open for business. The cemetery website tries to balance these two aspects, and strikes a discord which I found oddly endearing: it is "beautiful, timeless and still available." It's also selling itself short, because once you have declared yourself to be timeless, you can't really boast about how innovative you were, in your day. But it's a wonderful place to wander round.



This temple to Mary Baker Eddy has to be the cemetery's most impressive memorial, for its size, its stunning location and because it reminds me of one of my favourite books, Mistress Masham's Repose. I don't count the tower, because it isn't a memorial exactly, but it's worth the climb to the top for the panoramic view, the city beyond a sea of green (so many wonderful trees, and so helpfully labelled, too), and the sense of achievement. It's also where we got the closest look at one of the many hawks that kept buzzing us on our walk:



Not the greatest picture, but the best I could do (probably one of these).

The graves which lodge in my memory aren't the impressive, public statements but the small, almost anonymous ones, these two tiny (each about the size of a shoebox) and much eroded sculptures:



I was nonplussed by the family groups in which graves are identified only as 'Mother' or 'Father', and deeply ambivalent about:



No doubt the inscription is intended as a dignified statement of loss and grief, but it sounds to me like children squabbling over their toys: 'MY wife and child! MINE!'

All this is under the snow right now; but it's still there, waiting for spring.

Date: 2015-02-11 01:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sartorias.livejournal.com
That top one is stunning!

Date: 2015-02-11 02:54 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shewhomust.livejournal.com
Next time you visit Boston, maybe?

Date: 2015-02-11 03:01 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sartorias.livejournal.com
GREAT idea!

Date: 2015-02-11 02:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] weegoddess.livejournal.com
OMG. There's COLOR. Beautiful lovely COLOR. It feels like forever since there was color in nature outside. And that was such a lovely day - I'm so very glad we went! In fact, I went back later since I knew you wanted to see the fall foliage:

2014 view from Mt Auburn tower_1518

Thank you for posting about this. It really does give me hope and a smile. People keep saying that this will all be over in 6 weeks (some say 8 weeks). And we've all survived worse for longer. But still, COLOR.

::grateful hugs::

Date: 2015-02-11 02:57 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shewhomust.livejournal.com
Then my work here is done.

(Yes, you posted about going back, and I enjoyed that post. I felt bad that you'd reported on your return visit before I managed to write about our first, but now I think it was waiting for the right moment.)

Date: 2015-02-11 03:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nineweaving.livejournal.com
Thank you! Mount Auburn is stunningly beautiful in spring as well. I keep hoping that Lilliput lives on in that temple.

Nine

Date: 2015-02-11 05:36 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shewhomust.livejournal.com
Thank *you* for suggesting the visit.

Date: 2015-02-11 04:52 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cmcmck.livejournal.com
I see what you mean about the nameless memorials.

Odd and slightly worrying..........

Date: 2015-02-11 05:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shewhomust.livejournal.com
No doubt there's a perfectly good reason for it - or at least something in local custom that makes it less odd. But I can't think what that might be...

Date: 2015-02-11 05:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cmcmck.livejournal.com
Maybe it's having personal experience of 'depersoning' that gives it a certain frisson?

Date: 2015-02-11 09:25 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] fauxklore
You really ought to read Jane Langton's book, The Escher Twist, which captures Mount Auburn Cemetery splendidly. It's one of my favorite places to wander around, not that I'm in Boston nearly often enough to enjoy it.

Date: 2015-02-12 12:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shewhomust.livejournal.com
Looks interesting - I love the cover. She doesn't seem to be published in the UK...

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