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The oddest, most unexpected day of our holiday was also the day we had constructed the trip around. It's [livejournal.com profile] durham_rambler's story, really, but it goes something like this: each year the British Legion (ex-services organisation) in Manor Park, east London, commemorate the anniversary of the Battle of Jutland. Manor Park has a particular connection with the battle, because John Travers Cornwell, VC, is buried in the cemetery there. And this is of particular interest to [livejournal.com profile] durham_rambler, because Jack Cornwell was his grandfather's cousin.

British Legion ParadeSo on a blazing hot Sunday, we crossed London and joined a procession the streets of Newham, men, women and children in uniform carrying their heavy banners to the music of a brass band. In this extremely multiracial part of London, almost the only non-white face in the procession was that of the Civic Ambassador (not the mayor, apparently, because mayor is a purely administrative post, but a bureaucratic term for the function I think of as that of the mayor) resplendent in red sari and gold chain of office. Yet the reaction seemed to be friendly, if bemused: a small child stood in an open doorway stamping her feet to the music, people emerged from shops to listen, convoys of youngsters accompanied the procession for a short distance, filming it with their mobile phones.

We made our way to the church, where there was a service which included the dedication of new colours (a new banner) for the local Sea Cadet unit which is named for Jack Cornwell, I usually claim never have been to a church service from which someone did not emerge either married or buried; I suppose I'll have to re-word that. But the theatre of this service - the playing of The Last Post, the lowering of the banners, the silence broken by the familiar words of Binyon's promise:
They shall grow not old, as we that are left grow old:
Age shall not weary them, nor the years contemn.
At the going down of the sun and in the morning
We will remember them.
- was extremely moving.

Then back to the British Legion for lunch, and speeches, and conversation. [livejournal.com profile] durham_rambler was welcomed as a member of the family, and had the opportunity to talk to a lady in her nineties whose sister had married Jack Cornwell's brother, and who had childhood memories of the man himself: "I think we are related," was [livejournal.com profile] durham_rambler's opening gambit. We spoke to the Civic Ambassador, and to the Deputy Lieutenant of Newham, and realised there was a happy synergy between [livejournal.com profile] durham_rambler's pleasure at celebrating part of his family's history, and their pleasure at having found a contact for a valued part of "Newham's heritage". Very gratifying all round.

And we ended the day with a visit to the present-day family, which was good too.

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